Getting kind of bored nowadays...(since wenshu wasn't free this week to accompany me to buy some new games =p and people getting involved for NDP...and less than motivated in going for work...) so I've been searching for CHEMICAL AGENTS!

Nononono.....I'm not a terrorist-wannabe. I just got bored and wanted to understand more about what I might be about to deal with, (hopefully that day will never come =x) so that I could better prepare myself for the better.......or for the worse.=x

Recently, one of my colleague told me more about his personal history - about his past guilt of getting an abortion for his ex-girlfriend. And, to my surprise, there was another person who did the same thing. Promiscuity had got the best of them.

In my own opinion, pre-marital sex or marital infidelity is a big NO-NO. It'll be a burden to the child; confusion turns to anger and then to self-hate - (from both side of the families). And in most situation, the 'parents' would always think in their own positions and decide to go for the abortion without thinking about the life at stake. Divorce might be another of their 'solution'. Sometimes both make a perfect score.

And even if the child was lucky to be conceived, the hierarchy of the family will be in chaos.

So where did the problem lie? - to the parents, to the media or to the western culture of being an open-minded society? I blame it on the individuals. And it's kind of sad to see so many thoughtless individuals being proliferated in recent times.

Perhaps MOE can show all students, both males and females, in secondary schools and ITE the show - 'Silent Screams'. I thought they would show us for my generation, but they didn't.

Early education is the key.